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REMEMBERING WOODY........

Robert Alan Woodward-Remembered
Alpine scenic, Aspen, CO
environmentalist, preservationist & friend of nature

The first time I met Woody is something I can't actually remember! Robert Alan Woodward, better known as Woody, was a student at Southern Connecticut State University at the same time I was- in the early to mid-1980's.  I know that I met him through a friend, Alex, another student who came from the Soviet Union at the age of 12. Alex was an intellectual as well as offbeat.  He tended to attract like-friends that really weren't like each other at all, except they were all "different".   Woody was one of them.  I remember him wearing these incredible tie-dyes when they weren't in.  I do recall asking him where he got them and he said he made them.
 
My own fascination with the sixties, art and dancing always made Woody an intriguing character to me.  Attending parties at the Cubicle was like a chance to try out my idealizations of the 60's.  He lived with two other characters, Zak (now my husband- never would've thought it years ago!!!) and Dan.  The first party (of many I attended there)I remember being at, I was handed markers and paint upon entering. There was grafitti and art of all types all over the walls. Nowadays, there is the cliche of thinking and acting outside the box to be creative; well this was literally in the box. So many things about those days, in description, sound like oxymorons.
I loved sitting and watching Woody dance, or draw (artwork), or making tie dyes in his "tie-dye factory" as one bathtub had been called at the Cubicle.  I think I was just also very jealous.  Woody, just naturally, felt comfortable in his own skin.  He didn't care what anyone thought. Knowing myself with more wisdom from my years, I bet Woody probably would have been a bit puzzled as to why I was jealous. This would not be anything having to do with putting himself down, but more about jealousy being a silly emotion. Or perhaps he would have been trying to tell me that my jealousy was rooted in not being at ease with myself, therefore perhaps I could pursue what I really wanted to be doing.   Woody, I believe, would want us all to be doing what we truly wanted, not what we thought was expected from us by others.

To learn more about the Cubicle, Woody's friends & roommates, and more stories from that time, please click on these words

To see one site a good friend of his put together on him, click here

"To sometimes take my mind off things, I used to take a walk to the Cubicle to chat with Zak & Woody. Both Zak and Wood were interesting, unique, and flambouyant in their own ways back then. They could be so entertaining.  For those of you who know them,  you would understand. It is so funny that the combination of these two could be a comedy team. for those who know Woody, surprising as it is- He was the straight man of the comedy duo!", Paraphrased quote by Joe Derisi.

Woody

That lean frame tall and wiry, wearing raggedy apple picking shirt.
Pungent like a woodbox, a cup of tea, a hard day's work.
A hug that sweeps me off my feet and I can feel his whole body
zigzagging welcome.

Bursting into a dance the way characters in musicals burst into song.
Twirling and bounding, grabbing balloons.
his laugh is catching.
Earth Wind and Fire All In All- that's an incredible album!

Did you hear about the meteor shower, his email asks,
Best viewed just after sunset, conveniently.
Best viewed from Poland, inconveniently.
Dry wit crackles from his words.

Down on the rug with my tiny little girl in his arms.
He looks into her eyes as if they have just negotiated a treaty.
Come on now, go pick up the toy. No, no, you can do it! Try to walk!

Woody walks in the burnished meadow with my toddler, feeds her raspberries.
The school system's kind of screwed up, but I think I might be
getting through to some of those kids.
I can hear the struggle in his voice.

Leaning his torso across the kitchen table, swirling the herbs in the
bottom of the cup.
When someone asks me how I'm doing, I give them a real answer, he cackles.

Hiking up the road in the twilight, the rising moon coppery in the boughs.
Woody's voice is low and peaceful as we walk.
He lets me pick the subject.

A dishrag in my hand, I answer the door.
There's that tousled golden head, that bold and bashful smile. He's
eating an apple.
I was just biking by...
So glad to see him- but in these sweats?
He takes my hands and beholds me like I'm Nefertiti anyway.

So I went to this Buddhist retreat, he mutters. They were so damn serious.
I had to sneak a piece of cake in the middle of the night.
While I was eating it, I felt something strange in my mouth.
The cake was full of ants!
We howl with laughter.

Suddenly, there's Woody in the co-op parking lot. I'm off to Bali.
He tosses this off casually.
Did you go to the full moon coffeehouse, he asks? Wildest Dreams was awesome.
No, I didn't. I was probably watching TV.
He squints at me, not going to make this easy.
You don't get out much, do you?

I want you to meet my friends, Woody drags me up the street, into town.
You should call her, call him, call them!
Can you help this one out, or maybe that one could help you!

When I get to the mountains, Woody says, I don't want to hear a car
for a whole month.
It's gonna be so easy to meditate up there!
He smiles in secret anticipation of this priceless peace. He fingers
the fringe of the tablecloth, looks up disarmingly.
Those eyes blue like the ocean on an August horizon.
I value stresslessness, he muses. I love people, love my friends. I
don't like cars.
 
Ursula Shea Borneo

to see why you should question authority and to learn much about the circumstances of Woody's death, which I choose not to address on this page, click on these words.

Question Authority!!!